Sunday, May 13, 2007

GOTCHA Day Has Arrived!!

It's A Girl!! At long last. It's hard to believe it's finally here. Charlene mentioned earlier that it feels like we're just baby sitting. In actuality, that is what we are doing. Before we were given our babies, all the parents had to sign a temporary "custody" form. We have them for 24 hours temporarily. They want to make sure there are no incompatibilities between baby and their new parents. It was explained that this 24 hour period, will give our babies and us a chance to get to know one another and that if any parents decided it isn't right for them, they were under no obligation. I can't imagine anyone doing that.

After signing the form, we were introduced to the director of Civil Affairs. Then they introduced the orphanage directors. There were babies from 3 different orphanages in this province. Each director brought with them an extremely valuable gift for us. It's photo album of our baby in her first 10 months. Even a photo of what is possibly when she was found. The description of what she was wearing when she was found matched the photo they had in the album. We'll scan those when we get back and post them for all to see.

Wouldn't you know it. We were the 2nd family to sign the temp custody form, and THE last to receive our baby. There were so many people milling around that had just received their babies, it was hard for Mommy and Daddy to get to her. Mommy almost crawled under a table to get to her!



They were very kind to all the families. Everyone got a photo album of their baby and a gift bag with several bags of formula, rice cereal (I think), and some kind of snack cakes, a baby bottle, container for mixing, and a spoon. The bad thing was no directions in English. We were able to figure out the chart on the side of the bag.
Proud Daddy and baby bonding.



No one told us when the last time the babies ate anything. Grace started getting fussy and you could tell see was very tired. She looked like she wanted to eat the toy in the photo above, so we decided to try and giver her a bottle. Daddy expertly prepared a bottle for her despite the foreign directions and Mommy fed it to her and she hungrily ate most of it.


After several burps, it was back to more fussing and out and out wailing. Mommy held her to calm her down and we think she was just so tired that she refused to go to sleep. After a few minutes, she dropped her head on Mommy's shoulder and was out like a light. Daddy has to go take some documents to our coordinators and later make a trip to the supermarket so he gave directions to Mommy for another bottle.

Hope everyone enjoys the photos!

5 comments:

Carolyn in Plainfield,IL said...

Hi Mommy and Daddy-
Had to get online right away to see if there was any news or pics. Boy, is Grace a beautiful little girl. I was really anxious to see your pics. I bet you are thrilled. Will wait to see more pics and how things are going.
Love you--
Aunt Carolyn

Unknown said...

Happy Mother's/Father's Day all rolled into one day!! I'm so happy for you guys!! Grace is a little cutey!! Good job figuring out those directions Jeff, and good job feeding and burping her Charlene! Let us all know how the first poopy diaper changing went! LOL :)

Love you all,
Lance

ma said...

Hello, Family!
You all look great together! Little Miss Grace is a very sweet, pretty addition to your family. Will be so anxious to see more pictures and hear more of your activities.
Looks like all is well and no "incompatibilities" to worry about. :-)
Love you all,
Ma/Grandma

Grandma B. said...

Hi, Charlene & Jeff:
I am so happy for you that finally you got your darling Grace. She is adorable and you two look very much like parents, already. I love the pictures that you sent. How are things going by now? Take care and keep us posted. Love, Grandma B.

Qiong_W said...

Hi Charlene and Jeff,

I am so happy for you guys! Crace is so cute and adorable! She is a such great addition to your family!Have a great time there and enjoy the familly together!

Take care

Qiong